You want to say something that makes their heart skip. Something they’ll screenshot and read again when they’re missing you. Something that shows you actually put thought into it—not just copied the first thing you saw on Google.
Here’s the thing: your person gets generic messages all the time. What they don’t get? Messages that feel personal. Real. Like you actually thought about THEM specifically when you wrote it.
That’s exactly what you’ll find here—75 messages that feel genuine, not robotic. Messages for every situation: whether you’re madly in love, nervously crushing, in a long-distance relationship, or somewhere beautifully in between.
Why New Month Messages Matter More Than You Think
Let’s be real—most people think new month wishes are cheesy or unnecessary. “Why do I need a special day to tell them I care?”
Here’s why it actually matters:
It shows consistency. Anyone can be romantic on anniversaries or birthdays. But remembering them on random monthly milestones? That shows they’re on your mind even when there’s no “special occasion” pressure.
It creates anticipation. When you make new month messages a tradition, they start looking forward to what you’ll say. It becomes “your thing” as a couple.
It’s a relationship checkpoint. Each month is a mini-milestone. Celebrating it acknowledges “we made it another month” and reinforces commitment.
It breaks the routine. Relationships can get predictable. A thoughtful message on the first of the month adds a spark of intentionality to ordinary weeks.
It’s competition-free. Valentine’s Day has impossible standards. New month wishes? Low pressure but high impact. You’re not competing with jewelry ads—just showing genuine thoughtfulness.
The key is making it feel natural, not forced. Which is exactly what these messages do.
25 Messages for Your Boyfriend: Making Him Feel Seen
These aren’t your typical “happy new month baby” texts. These are messages that acknowledge who HE is—his struggles, his dreams, his specific role in your life.
- For the Ambitious Boyfriend
“Happy new month to the man who’s out here chasing dreams like they owe him money. I see how hard you’re working, even when nobody else notices. This month, I’m praying every door you knock on swings wide open. I believe in you—always have, always will. Let’s make this month legendary.” - For the Boyfriend Going Through Tough Times
“New month, fresh start, same ride-or-die girlfriend by your side. I know last month was heavy, and I can’t promise this one will be perfect. But I can promise you won’t face it alone. Whatever this month throws at us, we’re catching it together. You’re stronger than you think, and I’m not going anywhere.” - For the Boyfriend Who Makes You Laugh
“Happy new month to the guy who somehow makes even Monday mornings tolerable. May this month bring you as much joy as you effortlessly give me. Here’s to 30 more days of your terrible jokes that I definitely don’t secretly love. (Okay, I love them.) You make everything better just by existing.” - For the Boyfriend You’re Deeply In Love With
“Another month with you feels like unwrapping a gift I didn’t know I deserved. Happy new month to the man who turned my ‘maybe someday’ into ‘thank God it’s you.’ May this month deepen what we have and surprise us with moments we’ll still talk about when we’re old and gray.” - For the Long-Distance Boyfriend
“Happy new month, baby. I’m counting down—not just days on the calendar, but moments until I can actually hold you instead of just holding my phone. Distance makes this harder, but somehow it also makes what we have even more real. This month, we’re one month closer to ending the ‘see you soon’ and starting the ‘come here.'” - For the Boyfriend Who Needs Encouragement
“New month reminder: You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re exactly where you need to be, building exactly what’s meant for you. I see your progress even when you can’t. Happy new month to the man I’m lucky enough to grow with. This month is yours—claim it.” - For the Romantic Boyfriend
“Happy new month to my favorite person to do absolutely nothing with. May this month give us more lazy Sunday mornings, random dance sessions in the kitchen, and those quiet moments where we just look at each other and somehow communicate everything without saying a word. I love the life we’re building.” - For the Boyfriend You Just Started Dating
“Happy new month! Still can’t believe I get to start another month knowing you. Every conversation with you feels like discovering my new favorite song. Here’s to more of whatever this is—because whatever it is, I’m really into it.” - For the Boyfriend Who’s Your Best Friend
“New month with my favorite human. Happy new month to the guy who’s somehow both my biggest cheerleader and the person who roasts me the hardest. May this month bring us more inside jokes that make zero sense to anyone else and adventures that turn into stories we’ll tell forever.” - For the Boyfriend You’re Grateful For
“Happy new month to the man who makes me believe in answered prayers. I don’t know what I did to deserve you showing up in my life, but I’m spending this month (and every month after) being grateful you did. Thank you for choosing me, consistently.” - For the Protective Boyfriend
“New month, same amazing man making me feel safe in a chaotic world. Happy new month to my peace in human form. May this month be gentle with you the way you’re always gentle with me. You deserve every good thing coming your way.” - For the Boyfriend Who Loves Adventures
“Happy new month, adventure partner! Last month’s memories were incredible, but I’m already excited about what this month will bring. Whether we’re conquering mountains or just conquering the couch, everything’s an adventure with you. Let’s make this month unforgettable.” - For the Boyfriend You’re Building a Future With
“Another month closer to forever with you. Happy new month to the man I’m building something real with—not just a relationship, but an actual life. This month, let’s keep laying bricks for the future we keep talking about. I’m all in.” - For the Boyfriend Who Supports Your Dreams
“Happy new month to my biggest fan who somehow manages to believe in my dreams even more than I do. Your support means everything. May this month bring you the same energy you constantly pour into me. You make me better just by being you.” - For the Boyfriend During a Rough Patch
“New month, new chance for us. I know we’ve been struggling, and I won’t pretend everything’s perfect. But I’m choosing to start this month with hope—hope that we remember why we started, hope that we communicate better, hope that we choose each other again. Happy new month. Let’s try.” - For the Boyfriend You Miss
“Happy new month to the man I can’t stop thinking about even when I’m supposed to be focusing on literally anything else. May this month bring us more time together and fewer moments apart. Miss you always, but especially right now.” - For the Thoughtful Boyfriend
“New month with the man who notices everything—how I like my coffee, when I need space, what makes me smile. Happy new month to someone who actually pays attention. May this month return all the care you constantly give.” - For the Boyfriend Who Challenges You to Grow
“Happy new month to the man who loves me enough to not let me stay comfortable. You push me to grow, think bigger, and become the best version of myself. This month, I’m grateful for how you challenge me while still accepting exactly who I am.” - For the Patient Boyfriend
“New month appreciation post for my boyfriend who’s somehow patient with my overthinking, my mood swings, and my tendency to take forever choosing where to eat. Happy new month to the man with superhuman patience. You deserve everything good this month.” - For the Boyfriend You’re Proud Of
“Happy new month to the man I’m constantly bragging about. I see how you show up—for me, for your goals, for the people you love. This month, I’m praying the world recognizes what I already know: you’re exceptional.” - For the Boyfriend Who Makes You Feel Beautiful
“New month with the man whose eyes make me feel like the most beautiful person alive. Happy new month to someone who sees me—really sees me—and somehow still thinks I’m amazing. May this month show you how incredible you are through my eyes.” - For the Spontaneous Boyfriend
“Happy new month to the guy who turns ordinary moments into memories. May this month bring us more spontaneous road trips, random 2 AM conversations, and those ‘you had to be there’ moments. Life with you is never boring.” - For the Boyfriend You’re Learning With
“Another month of figuring out this love thing together. Happy new month to my partner in this beautiful mess. We don’t have all the answers, but we’re learning as we go. Here’s to more grace, more understanding, and more of us getting it right.” - For the Boyfriend Who’s Your Safe Space
“Happy new month to my calm in every storm. When the world feels overwhelming, you’re where I find peace. May this month be as comforting for you as you are for me. Thank you for being my safe place.” - For the Boyfriend You Simply Adore
“New month, same incredible man stealing my heart over and over. Happy new month to someone who makes loving easy and being loved feel safe. Here’s to 30 more days of whatever this magic is between us. I’m so grateful it’s you.”
25 Messages for Your Girlfriend: Making Her Feel Cherished
Women notice everything—especially whether your message feels copy-pasted or genuinely crafted for her. These messages acknowledge her specific qualities, not generic “you’re beautiful” lines.
- For the Ambitious Girlfriend
“Happy new month to the woman who’s out here building empires in heels. I’m watching you chase your dreams with a focus that’s honestly intimidating and incredibly attractive. This month, may every goal you set become a goal you crush. I’m your biggest fan, forever.” - For the Girlfriend Who Overthinks Everything
“New month reminder: You’re doing better than your anxious brain is telling you. Happy new month to the woman I love, overthinking and all. May this month bring you more peace, fewer spiraling thoughts, and the confidence to trust yourself. You’ve got this—and you’ve got me.” - For the Girlfriend You’re Crazy About
“Happy new month to the woman who walked into my life and made everything make sense. I didn’t know I was looking for you until I found you. This month, I’m grateful for every conversation, every laugh, every moment that proves I’m the luckiest person alive.” - For the Long-Distance Girlfriend
“Another month apart, another month of missing you like crazy. Happy new month, beautiful. The distance is brutal, but what we have is worth every mile between us. This month brings us closer to the day when ‘goodnight’ isn’t followed by hanging up, but by actually holding you. Soon.” - For the Girlfriend Who Makes You Better
“Happy new month to the woman who somehow makes me want to be a better man just by existing. You inspire growth without even trying. May this month bring you the same positive energy you constantly radiate. You’re changing my life in the best ways.” - For the Girlfriend You Just Started Dating
“New month with someone I’m really excited to keep getting to know. Happy new month to the woman who’s currently occupying way too much space in my thoughts (and I’m not complaining). Here’s to more of whatever this is, because it feels really right.” - For the Strong Girlfriend Going Through Hard Times
“Happy new month to the strongest woman I know—even when you don’t feel strong. I see you carrying weight that would break most people, and you’re still standing. This month, I pray things get lighter. Until then, remember you’re not carrying it alone.” - For the Girlfriend Who’s Your Best Friend
“New month with my favorite person. Happy new month to the woman who’s somehow my girlfriend, best friend, and partner in chaos all at once. May this month bring us more random adventures, ridiculous inside jokes, and proof that we’re genuinely unstoppable together.” - For the Girlfriend You’re Grateful For
“Happy new month to the woman who said yes to me and changed everything. I don’t say it enough: thank you. Thank you for choosing me, staying with me, and loving me in ways I didn’t know I needed. This month, I’m making sure you know how grateful I am.” - For the Independent Girlfriend
“New month to my independent queen who doesn’t need me but chooses me anyway. That’s the kind of love that matters. Happy new month to the woman who’s whole on her own but makes life better when we’re together. Here’s to partnership, not dependency.” - For the Girlfriend Who Supports Your Dreams
“Happy new month to my biggest cheerleader who believes in my dreams even when I’m doubting them. Your support isn’t just appreciated—it’s everything. May this month return all the energy you pour into everyone else. You deserve the world.” - For the Girlfriend You’re Building With
“Another month of building our future together. Happy new month to the woman I see forever with. We’re not just dating—we’re creating something real. This month, let’s keep laying foundations for the life we keep planning. I’m all in with you.” - For the Girlfriend Who Makes You Laugh
“Happy new month to the woman with the most contagious laugh and the wildest sense of humor. May this month bring you as much joy as you effortlessly bring me. Life is genuinely better when you’re in it, making everything lighter and funnier.” - For the Thoughtful Girlfriend
“New month appreciation for the woman who remembers everything—my coffee order, my mom’s birthday, that random thing I mentioned once three months ago. Happy new month to someone who makes me feel seen and known. May this month show you how special you are.” - For the Girlfriend During a Rough Patch
“Happy new month. I know we’ve been struggling, and I won’t act like one message fixes everything. But I want to start this month with honesty: I still choose you. I still believe in us. Let’s use this month to remember why we work. We’re worth fighting for.” - For the Creative Girlfriend
“New month to my favorite artist who sees beauty everywhere. Happy new month to the woman whose creativity constantly amazes me. May this month bring you inspiration, breakthroughs, and the recognition your talent deserves. Keep creating magic—I’m in awe of you.” - For the Girlfriend Who Needs Encouragement
“Happy new month, beautiful. I need you to know: you’re not behind schedule. You’re not falling short. You’re exactly where you need to be, blooming at your own pace. This month, be gentle with yourself. Progress isn’t always visible, but it’s happening.” - For the Nurturing Girlfriend
“New month to the woman who takes care of everyone but rarely lets anyone take care of her. Happy new month to my nurturer who needs nurturing. This month, I’m making sure you feel as loved and supported as you make everyone else feel. You deserve that.” - For the Girlfriend You Miss Constantly
“Happy new month to the woman I can’t stop thinking about. Even when we’re apart, you’re constantly on my mind. May this month bring us more time together and create more memories to hold onto when we’re missing each other. Always thinking of you.” - For the Girlfriend Who Challenges You
“New month with the woman who doesn’t let me get away with anything. Happy new month to someone who loves me enough to call me out, push me to grow, and refuse to let me settle. You make me better by not letting me stay comfortable. Thank you.” - For the Girlfriend You’re Proud Of
“Happy new month to the woman I can’t stop bragging about. Your drive, your heart, your mind—all of it amazes me. This month, I’m praying people see what I see: someone absolutely extraordinary. I’m so proud to be yours.” - For the Girlfriend Who Makes You Feel Loved
“New month with the woman who’s mastered the art of making me feel loved. Happy new month to someone whose presence feels like home. May this month bring you the same warmth and safety you consistently give me. You’re my peace.” - For the Spontaneous Girlfriend
“Happy new month to my adventure partner who turns regular days into memorable experiences. May this month bring us more spontaneous plans, random road trips, and those moments where we’re laughing so hard we can’t breathe. Everything’s better with you.” - For the Girlfriend You’re Learning Love With
“Another month of figuring this out together. Happy new month to the woman I’m learning to love better with every passing day. We’re not perfect, but we’re real. Here’s to more growth, more grace, and more of us getting it right.” - For the Girlfriend You Simply Adore
“Happy new month to the woman who makes my heart do that thing. You know the thing—where just seeing your name on my phone makes me smile like an idiot. Here’s to 30 more days of me being completely gone for you. Best decision I ever made was choosing you.”
15 Messages for Your Crush: Playing It Cool While Showing Interest
Crushing is a delicate balance—you want to show interest without seeming desperate, be flirty without being creepy, stand out without trying too hard. These messages thread that needle perfectly.
- The Subtle But Clear Message
“Happy new month! Here’s to more of those conversations that somehow stretch way longer than either of us planned. Funny how that keeps happening with you.” - The Playfully Confident Message
“New month, new chances for you to finally admit I’m your favorite person to text. Happy new month! May this month bring you good vibes and… I don’t know, maybe more reasons to text me?” - The Sweet and Simple Message
“Happy new month to someone who’s been making regular days feel a little less regular lately. Hope this month is good to you.” - The Flirty-But-Deniable Message
“New month reminder: you’re still the person I look forward to talking to most. Happy new month! Here’s hoping we have even more random late-night conversations that I definitely don’t replay later.” - The Genuine Interest Message
“Happy new month! I’m curious—what’s your goal for this month? (And no pressure, but I’m definitely rooting for you whatever it is.)” - The Humor Approach
“Happy new month! Just wanted to be the first person to wish you that. (Competitive? Me? Never.) Hope this month brings you everything you’re hoping for.” - The Bold-But-Casual Message
“New month, same person over here wondering when we’re actually going to hang out instead of just talking about hanging out. Happy new month! This month, let’s actually make plans?” - The Thoughtful Message
“Happy new month! I saw [something they mentioned they wanted/needed/were interested in] and it made me think of you. Hope this month brings you good surprises and better opportunities.” - The Inside-Joke Message
“Happy new month! May this month bring you less [inside joke reference] and more [another inside joke reference]. (See? I listen when you talk. Shocking, I know.)” - The Encouraging Crush Message
“New month energy! Happy new month to someone who’s genuinely going places. I see you working toward [thing they mentioned], and I’m low-key impressed. This month is yours—go get it.” - The Mystery-Maintaining Message
“Happy new month to someone interesting. (Yeah, I’m talking about you.) Here’s to more of whatever this energy is between us. It’s… something.” - The Straightforward Message
“Happy new month! Full transparency: you’re one of my favorite people to talk to, and I’m hoping this month brings us more reasons to keep talking. No pressure though.” - The Future-Hinting Message
“New month, new possibilities. Happy new month! Something tells me this month might be when we finally [thing you’ve vaguely discussed]. Just saying—the universe might be aligning.” - The Compliment-Casual Message
“Happy new month to someone who somehow makes even boring conversations entertaining. It’s a gift, honestly. Hope this month treats you as well as you deserve.” - The Leave-Them-Wanting-More Message
“Happy new month! I had something really smooth to say here, but I forgot it. So… yeah. Have a great month. (We both know I’ll text you before the week’s over anyway.)”
10 Messages for Long-Distance Love: Closing the Gap with Words
Long-distance relationships require extra intentionality. These messages acknowledge the difficulty while reinforcing commitment.
- The Countdown Message
“Happy new month, baby. Month [number] of this distance thing. We’re [number] months closer to the end of ‘I miss you’ texts and the start of actual mornings waking up next to you. This distance is temporary. What we have isn’t.” - The Reassurance Message
“New month, same commitment from miles away. Happy new month to the person worth every difficult timezone, every delayed response, every ‘wish you were here’ moment. Distance doesn’t change how I feel—it just makes me more certain of who you are to me.” - The Hopeful Message
“Happy new month, love. This month I’m praying for: surprise visits, clearer video calls, fewer misunderstandings, and at least one really good piece of news that brings us physically closer. Until then, I’m yours—completely, from afar.” - The Honest Message
“New month check-in: I miss you. Like, physically ache miss you. Happy new month to the person I’d rather struggle with from a distance than have it easy with anyone else up close. You’re worth every single mile.” - The Future-Focused Message
“Happy new month to my long-distance love and future close-distance forever. We’re building something strong enough to survive this separation. Soon this will just be a chapter in our story—the part where we proved nothing can keep us apart.”
5 Motivational Messages: For the Goal-Oriented Partner
Some months need less romance and more motivation—especially if your person is going through challenges or pursuing big goals.
- The Dream-Chaser Message
“Happy new month to someone who refuses to settle for mediocre. I see you working when nobody’s watching, believing when nobody’s encouraging, persisting when everything says quit. This month, may your efforts finally line up with the breakthrough you’ve been building toward.” - The Tough-Love-Meets-Support Message
“New month reminder: excuses are expired. Happy new month! This month, less talking about what you’re going to do and more actually doing it. I believe in you enough to tell you the truth: you’re capable of more than you’re currently doing. Now prove me right.” - The Gratitude-And-Growth Message
“Happy new month! Before chasing new goals, let’s pause and acknowledge how far you’ve already come. Growth isn’t always dramatic—sometimes it’s subtle, steady progress. This month, celebrate the small wins while reaching for big ones. Proud of you.” - The Reset Message
“New month = new energy. Happy new month! Whatever didn’t work last month? Leave it there. This month is a fresh start with fresh opportunities. You’re not starting over—you’re starting wiser. Now use that wisdom and make this your best month yet.” - The Unconditional Support Message
“Happy new month to someone I’m supporting no matter what this month brings. Big wins? I’m celebrating with you. Setbacks? I’m problem-solving with you. Regular days? I’m still choosing you. This month and every month after. You’ve got me, always.”
Making Your Message Land: The Delivery Matters
You’ve picked the perfect message. Now make sure your delivery enhances it rather than undermines it.
Timing tips:
Send it right at midnight for maximum impact (they’ll remember you were thinking of them at the month’s turn)
Or send it first thing in the morning so it’s the first thing they see when they wake up
Avoid sending it days into the new month—it loses the “new month” relevance
Personalization tips:
Add their name naturally within the message
Reference a specific recent conversation or inside joke
Follow up the message with a voice note or video if you’re comfortable—hearing your voice adds intimacy
Include an emoji or two that feels like “you,” but don’t overdo it
Don’ts:
Don’t copy-paste without reading it first—make sure it actually fits your relationship
Don’t send a novel if you usually text in short bursts—it’ll feel out of character
Don’t add “forward this to 10 people” energy—make it feel personal, not generic
Don’t send it if you’re currently in a fight without addressing the elephant first
Making it memorable:
Pair your message with a small gesture (coffee delivery, their favorite snack, a playlist)
Screenshot their favorite past messages from you and send it with “Happy new month to the person who makes me say things like this”
Create a tradition: same time every month, evolving messages that build on the previous ones
The Real Question: Do These Actually Work?
Let me be honest with you.
Will sending a thoughtful new month message magically fix a broken relationship? No.
Will it make someone who’s not interested suddenly fall for you? Probably not.
But here’s what it WILL do:
In established relationships: It breaks the routine. It shows you’re still making effort. It reminds them why they fell for you—because you’re thoughtful, consistent, and intentional about making them feel valued.
In new relationships: It sets a tone of thoughtfulness from the start. It shows you’re the kind of person who celebrates small milestones, not just big ones.
With crushes: It keeps you on their radar without being pushy. It shows interest while respecting boundaries. It gives them something to smile about that associates you with positive feelings.
In long-distance relationships: It bridges the physical gap with emotional presence. It reminds them that distance might separate your bodies, but your thoughts are constantly together.
The magic isn’t in the words themselves—it’s in the intention behind them. These messages work because they’re thoughtful, specific, and genuine. They work because they make the person feel seen, valued, and chosen.
That’s what “happy new month” should always be about: reminding someone that in a world full of people, you’re thinking specifically about them.
Your Monthly Tradition Starts Now
Here’s your challenge: don’t just read these messages and move on. Pick one right now. Adjust it to fit your specific situation. Send it.
Then watch what happens.
Sometimes the smallest gestures—a thoughtful message on the first of the month—create the biggest impacts. Not because the gesture itself is grand, but because it’s consistent. It’s intentional. It says “you matter enough for me to pause my life and tell you so.”
That’s what these 75 messages are really about. They’re not just words—they’re bridges. Tiny monthly bridges that connect your heart to theirs, reminding both of you why you chose each other in the first place.
So stop overthinking it. Pick your message. Send it. And watch your person smile at their phone because of you.
That’s the goal. That’s always the goal.
FAQs: New Month Messages for Your Love
How do I wish my girlfriend/boyfriend happy new month without sounding cheesy?
Focus on specificity, not generalities. Instead of “Happy new month, you’re amazing,” try “Happy new month to the person who [specific thing they did recently that you appreciated].” The more specific and personal your message, the less cheesy it feels. Reference actual moments, real traits, or genuine inside jokes. Authenticity kills cheese.
What’s a good new month message for someone I just started dating?
Keep it light but intentional. Something like: “Happy new month! Looking forward to more [inside joke/thing you do together] this month. Here’s to more getting-to-know-you moments.” You want to show interest without overwhelming them with intensity. Acknowledge you’re excited about them without declaring undying love three weeks in.
Should I send a new month message if we’re currently fighting?
Depends on the fight. If it’s a minor disagreement, a new month message can be a gentle olive branch: “Happy new month. I know we’re not in a great place right now, but I still care about you. Can we talk?” If it’s a major issue that needs serious conversation, address the actual problem first—don’t use a cheerful message to avoid difficult conversations.
How do I make new month messages a tradition without it feeling forced?
Start small and stay consistent. Month one, send something simple. Month two, send something thoughtful. By month three, they’ll start anticipating it. The key is consistency—don’t skip months, even if you’re busy. It becomes “your thing” through repetition. After 6 months, it’ll feel weird NOT to send one.
What if they don’t respond enthusiastically to my new month message?
Don’t overthink one response. Some people aren’t big texters or don’t know how to respond to sweet messages. Judge by their overall behavior, not one reaction. If they consistently ignore your attempts at connection, that’s a different issue. But if they generally engage and just didn’t match your energy once? Let it go.
Can I send new month messages to multiple people (friends, family)?
Absolutely—but personalize each one. Your mom shouldn’t get the same message as your girlfriend. Your best friend shouldn’t get the romantic message meant for your boyfriend. The beauty of new month messages is they’re versatile: romantic for partners, encouraging for friends, grateful for family. Just customize appropriately.
What’s a good new month prayer for my relationship?
“God, as we enter this new month, strengthen what we’re building together. Give us patience with each other’s flaws, wisdom in our decisions, and grace in our conflicts. Help us grow closer to You and therefore closer to each other. Protect our relationship from outside interference and inside selfishness. May this month bring breakthroughs where we need them and peace where we’re struggling. Bless us individually and as a couple. Amen.”
How long should a new month message be?
Long enough to be meaningful, short enough to be read completely. Aim for 2-4 sentences or one substantial paragraph. Anything longer risks them skimming it. Anything shorter might feel thoughtless. The sweet spot is enough words to convey genuine thought without requiring them to settle in for a novel.
Should I send the message publicly (social media) or privately (text)?
Private is almost always better for romantic messages. Public posts can feel performative—like you’re announcing your love for others to see rather than telling your person directly. Save social media for occasional public appreciation. Monthly messages should be intimate, between you two, creating something that feels special because it’s private.
What if I forget to send a new month message one month?
Send it late with honesty: “I know the month already started, but I couldn’t let it go by without telling you [your message].” Don’t make elaborate excuses—just acknowledge you’re a bit late and send it anyway. The effort still matters. Then set a phone reminder for next month so you don’t forget again.
